Finding the Positives in Negative Times
The news is overwhelmingly negative at the moment, people are frightened, worried about what’s going to happen to themselves, their families and jobs. It can seem as if there is no gap in the clouds at all…but when you’re having one of those days cooped up indoors and wondering when all this will end, there are a few ways you can try to reframe what’s going on to make it, if not entirely positive, a slightly more positive experience.
This Too Will Pass…
Yes, it’s an old line, but it’s true. While we’re stuck in what seems like a never-ending quarantine it might seem that it’s never going to get better, but it will. Remind yourself that although this is horrible, scary and makes life difficult for us all, it’s temporary. While we don’t know how long it will last, normal life will resume at some point and this will all be a memory, we will sees our family and freinds again soon but we must e patient.
Find the Lesson
There will be something we can learn from the current situation, even if we’re feeling a bit lost at the moment. Psychologists who deal with trauma believe that an important way of helping someone work through it is to help them see that they have an ability to do something else to find their meaning.
Think about whether there are any lessons you can learn from this crisis, things you may have found in yourself, your home, your job that can be changed in the future? Look at the bigger picture too – has the crisis fired you up to join a political party, a charity, volunteer for something? Then it hasn’t been totally in vain.
Move Left and Right
That sounds odd but stay with us…Research has shown that doing repetitive movements like knitting, colouring and painting – even jumping rope, are helpful at self-soothing because of the way they engage your brain in the activity and need you to concentrate. Even better are activities that engage the left side of your brain: running, drumming, skating, or hopping. These simple things can be surprisingly calming…Probably why adult colouring books and running are so popular? We use mindfulness colouring at our spa and everyone loves it !
Express Yourself Artistically
Many people seem to be finding their creativity at the moment, and there’s a good reason to encourage this. The part of the brain that deals with emotions is very receptive to creativity, and this makes creative pursuits a great way to express your feelings. Stick with something you know or try a new pastime – but make it creative: drawing, dancing, music, singing, meditating learning a musical instrument. It doesn’t matter if you cant do it to any standard it’s about releasing emotions and engaging your creative brain.
Start ALong-Term Project
So, you’ve always wanted to learn how to play the guitar , there’s a 1000-piece jigsaw puzzle .learn mindfulness What better time to make a start? Your choice of project doesn’t have to be anything challenging or highbrow either – perhaps you’ve always wanted to read the Harry Potter books or watch Game of Thrones but never got around to it? Start now, give yourself something to distract you from the things you have no say or control over.
Keep calm and stay safe…